Essential Rules of Japanese Dining

Here are some key customs:

　・Hold your rice bowl while eating
In Japan, leaving the bowl on the table while eating is considered impolite. Holding the bowl shows respect for the food and the dining custom.

　・Do not pass food directly from chopstick to chopstick
This resembles a funeral ritual where bones are passed between chopsticks. Instead, place the food on a small plate for others to take.

　・Never stick chopsticks upright in rice
This resembles a funeral offering and is considered bad luck at the dining table. Always place chopsticks horizontally on a rest or dish.

　・Slurping is acceptable only for noodles
For dishes like ramen or soba, slurping is a way to express enjoyment. However, for rice, soup, or other dishes, making noise is considered impolite.

Every small gesture reflects the spirit of “Wa” – harmony and respect in Japanese culture.

【Shop Phrases】

　

　・Itadakimasu (いただきます) – “I humbly receive”
Said before eating to express gratitude for the food, the people who prepared it, and nature’s blessings.

This phrase is said before eating. It literally means “I humbly receive”. It expresses gratitude to the ingredients, the people who prepared the meal, and the life that was taken to provide the food.

　・Gochisousama deshita (ごちそうさまでした) – “Thank you for the meal”
Said after finishing a meal to show appreciation for the delicious food and the effort of those who prepared it.

This phrase is said after finishing a meal. It means “Thank you for the delicious meal”. The word originally meant “running around to prepare a feast”, so it carries appreciation for the effort of those who prepared and served the food.


　・Okawari (おかわり) – “Another serving, please”
Used when asking for a second helping, often of rice or soup.

　・Sumimasen (すみません) – “Excuse me”
Said to get someone's attention, such as calling a waiter or politely interrupting.

　・Eigo no menyuu wa arimasu ka? (英語のメニューはありますか？) – “Do you have an English menu?”
Useful phrase when dining at restaurants in Japan.

　・Kanpai (乾杯) – “Cheers!”Said before drinking to celebrate with others, similar to “Cheers!” in English.

　・Yoyaku shita [Name] desu（よやくした〇〇です） - I'm [Name]. I made a reservation.

　・okaikei (お会計) – “check out”